jerry52 893 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 I know how you feel The last dog i would ever own was Bandit had her 18 years Wife held her in vets office as we put her down. I am so sorry for you loss it hurts still. She was the last dog I ever trained. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
psl sniper 963 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Never easy. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Capt Nemo 882 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 They never go away! Heidi and Tiffany still bring tears to my eyes when I think about them. If we're gonna be riding on white horses when the Lord returns, I think we're going to see them again! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NM0 586 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Sorry for your loss. It's never easy. Classy way of dealing with the difficult situation. God Bless. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
read_the_wall 614 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 There are many here that have gone through this at least once. It is very hard to watch and is always hard to remember. We come on this forum and it makes us feel kind of manly .......until we all shed a tear for others fallen friends and family. Sorry for the pain you have today, but try to remember only the good times..... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
HOWARD COSELL 155 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Sorry for your loss GPD 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
siminov 164 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Sorry for your loss. Glad you took the day to be with him. That's important, for both of you. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
wasrNwarpaint 184 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 I feel your pain I had to put down my best friend of 15 years 4 days ago....we never spent one night apart 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
coronet 131 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Hang in there GPD. Just remember that you were as important to him, as he was to you. In my experience, the pain never goes away. I had to put my Chow down after almost 17 years. Cancer. I still miss her since 2006. It sounds like that you both shared some very special times together! They ask for so little, yet give so very, very much. Unconditionally. Take care of yourself and your family. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jpanzer 1,265 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Been through before what you are going through now. Sorry GPD it's tough I know. I've had a lot of loss in the past year, and my 13 year old Bearded Collie has helped me to get through it all. Don't like to think about her not being with me.... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RobRez 1,895 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Well, I know how ya must feel, but you can take pride in what you've done for him and how you handled his last day. I've had a few that I was their first touch when they were born, and the last touch they felt when they passed. Never gets easier, but I keep on getting more dog buddies. I hate to think about losing them, but I wouldn't trade em for the world and I try to always do it (raise them) better each time. Giving them "a dogs life" is worth the pain of seeing them go. A dogs love and loyalty will get me through the worst days. Like the joke says, "Lock yer wife and yer dog in the car trunk. Let em out an hour later and see which one is still happy to see you." 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zombiehunter762 376 Posted July 6, 2013 Report Share Posted July 6, 2013 Sorry to here about your loss. I've had several in my life that I still think about. May time ease the pain. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
nycGUNguy 61 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 So very sorry for your loss Mr. GPD. Never easy losing a friend, partner and member of the family. Glad to see that he was with you until the end... RIP Sincerely, nyclu3 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
misterT 174 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Another "sorry for your loss" but what an amazing story how he brought the leash for a last walk and mustered up the strength for it,how he stayed by your side during illness in the family. I will keep you and your family in my prayers too! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
storm6490 2,768 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Sorry for your loss. I just cleaned up around my stone monument with tbe string trimmer. My GSD is buried there and his leash still sits on the keystone. He was the best partner and fur bag I have ever lived with. They are hard as hell to let go of and difficult to find an equal. It's going to suck for a long time but, a kick ass new puppy will help a lot. Teach him all the old tricks. Good luck and may your buddy RIP. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RobRez 1,895 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Last buddy I buried. I used an antique shotgun that I had as a grave marker for my everyday/hunting friend. She was a Smarty-pants fer sure. Buried her next to my favorite hunting blind on the ranch. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DrThunder88 912 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Dogs are great, and your buddy sounds like an exemplary dog. The memories will eventually outweigh the pain. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
wasrNwarpaint 184 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Stryker is right get a new pup.... I did ....the loss of our pals will never diminish however you will be so busy training and getting to know your new buddy its easier to take Quote Link to post Share on other sites
kresk 10,063 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Never easy. Been there. I'm so sorry for your loss. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Voltia 375 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Sorry for your loss. Sounds like that dog was more than a dog, both to you and to others. A lot of people like to link that horrible rainbow bridge poem at times like this. It's horrible because it implies your dog is waiting for you to get up there to start his heavenly reward. No sir, that is not true. If God has a patrol car, your buddy is already in it, doing his job. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SwissyJim 117 Posted July 7, 2013 Report Share Posted July 7, 2013 Sorry man... been there and getting close again. Worse thing about dogs is the never live long enough. Still sad over loosing my girl 2 years ago, and tearing up right now knowing that my boy is getting close himself. Rainbow Poem is ok, but I've always liked this much better: "He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog.You are his life, his love, his leader.He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart.You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." Quote Link to post Share on other sites
longhorn 81 Posted July 8, 2013 Report Share Posted July 8, 2013 GRIEVE NOT FOR MEGrieve not for me for it has been ordained,that my journey here be short.Grieve not for me for my loyal presencewill ever remain in your heart.I was sent to be a Guardian,for the Guardians of Law in Blue.A fearless, noble protector,with a bond that few con construe.With character unshakable,and senses that are well heightened,I was sent to be a defender,so that your burden here would be lightened.Grieve not for me for in heavenly blue,our reunion day will come.Grieve not for me for as partners again,We will defend a greater Kingdom Condolences brother. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
unclejake 428 Posted July 8, 2013 Report Share Posted July 8, 2013 Kilo1.jpg Well, today is officially in the top five for the worst days in my life. My former partner, long since retired from service, had to be put down today. We have been fighting some major arthritis issues with him for a few years now, but his heart stayed strong. Everyday he would go out to my patrol car and try to get in, knowing that he could not. Every time I got called for a late night Swat callout, he would race me to the door. When my son was so sick and required us to be near him at all times, he never left my son's side and would wake us up if we fell asleep from exhaustion. Our vet told us that he would let us know when it was time, so we just kept him comfortable. It was the least that I could do for him as he had saved my ass so many times. He was not just a pet or retired partner, he was a family member. This morning, he woke me up holding his leash. We have not been able to take him on a long walk for over a year now, so I knew. And when he refused the meds that made his life bearable, it just solidified what he was telling me. I called into work and took a sick day to spend with him. He got that walk that he was wanting from this morning, a good bath and brush. I contacted the vet that has been there for him since day one and she agreed to come out to the house so that he was comfortable. He died laying in my lap, knowing that he was and will always be loved. Good-bye and until we meet again my friend, you will never be forgotten. One of the worst things a man can go through. Akin to losing a child. I have had the honor and privilege to have owned (or have been owned) by two very wonderful Companions. These aren't the only dogs I have had but there are certain ones that are very special and own your heart. Thoughts and prayers are sent to you for I know you are heartbroken and grieving now. You never get over it, but as time takes away some of the sting, fond memories will take the place of the pain. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dashowdy 141 Posted July 8, 2013 Report Share Posted July 8, 2013 sorry for your loss my friend it is just as tough as a family member. besides you cant call yourself a man if you dont cry like a girl when your best bud passes because he would do the same for you. This makes me think about the chocolate lab that sat in front of the marines coffin on youtube. I would much rather have to shoot a person than a dog, anyday. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tekilla 13 Posted July 8, 2013 Report Share Posted July 8, 2013 Sorry for your loss Quote Link to post Share on other sites
cvhanh20 1,052 Posted July 8, 2013 Report Share Posted July 8, 2013 Kilo1.jpg Well, today is officially in the top five for the worst days in my life. My former partner, long since retired from service, had to be put down today. We have been fighting some major arthritis issues with him for a few years now, but his heart stayed strong. Everyday he would go out to my patrol car and try to get in, knowing that he could not. Every time I got called for a late night Swat callout, he would race me to the door. When my son was so sick and required us to be near him at all times, he never left my son's side and would wake us up if we fell asleep from exhaustion. Our vet told us that he would let us know when it was time, so we just kept him comfortable. It was the least that I could do for him as he had saved my ass so many times. He was not just a pet or retired partner, he was a family member. This morning, he woke me up holding his leash. We have not been able to take him on a long walk for over a year now, so I knew. And when he refused the meds that made his life bearable, it just solidified what he was telling me. I called into work and took a sick day to spend with him. He got that walk that he was wanting from this morning, a good bath and brush. I contacted the vet that has been there for him since day one and she agreed to come out to the house so that he was comfortable. He died laying in my lap, knowing that he was and will always be loved. Good-bye and until we meet again my friend, you will never be forgotten. Truly sorry for your loss. I know your pain as my wife lost her best friend since she was teenager, she passed in the same room my son was born in. We laid her to rest on the top of the hill on our back property, It's so beautiful back there, we go back there at least tree times a week and pay our respects. Few people will ever know the depth of connection a person can share with a working dog, as they take on even deeper personalities when giving a propose. Although I know your in pain I hope you realize how blessed you are to have worked along side such an amazing partner. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Remek 771 Posted July 9, 2013 Report Share Posted July 9, 2013 Sorry for your loss GeorgiaPD. Its always heart wrenching to lose ones friend. Hopefully another comes soon to you and yours! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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