have you ever been on a message board before???? there is a thing called a tech section go there and use the search feature it will answer all your questions and even show you pictures..
as for the trust you putting way to much thought or whatever into it is real simple ...
you are saying 18+ is gay but you are not willing to do the simple things it would take to have an sbs that doesnt make sense
and as for your cleo not sighning off if they cant give you a reason why, then they have to sighn off period